nobody's wrong, we just have preferences, to think differently is to be a fool. Your dominatrix you have given permission for her to treat you in certain ways.
It was in a very erotic atmosphere, Harem style and I was the only male slave! The punishments were severe; flogging with a single tail. I even got a belly dance from one of the girls just before my punishment, which turned me on, and after the flogging in front of all those beautiful and horny women too. Whip marks for about 15 days.
You are wrong, I have already been punished with a whip, and in the back by a dominatrix in front of other women! My Dominatrix prefers to whip me in the back naked!
well obviously you've never been punished by whipping. I have, I don't think the punisher, makes that distinction. And as the punished I don't have a choice. BTW..... Whipping hurts.